It doesn’t take me long to think of a ‘new topic’ when I realize what we offer to you, our parents. To make it short and sweet I try to find a way to build communication with your baby. For us, it begins in the bathroom when I start with a new child– I think of ways to get a smile. Sometimes it’s a funny face, but more often the slight touch of their cheek coupled with the face and smile. If they are not responding I have silly sounds adults don’t normally make, and unique to your child once I find it.
As days turn into weeks and weeks into months, I expand the repertoire of silliness of things they look forward to experiencing, ways to expand verbal and even more important, non verbal communication. I stay fixated on developing as until we have 2-3 months interaction.
From there it goes into developing, if I can a pattern that they will recognize. How it happens is when they first come in the room in the morning, they often run to me knowing I will take them setting on my chair, if not already full with other children. I want to identify what they want me to know is going on with them. In other words, I listen.
When a child has been with us more than a year is when these ways of understanding really start to pay off. I try to understand when they will need to have their diaper change and change it before a rash develops. If I am not changing enough, Cathy is there to remind me. We go through them to prevent you from ever seeing we haven’t done enough, it’s that simple. Older kids aren’t spared either. They are asked to ‘go potty’ more than I could ever say.
Our daycare depends on whether you notice these ways of child interaction. The longer they are here, the more intricate the communication, and hence understanding develops. Cathy has a lot more of these than I do, and together we work with you to build a village of understanding for as long as you will allow us.
There is no substitute to have genuine communication and togetherness building happiness.
Mr ‘T’.
